If you hold something tight till you kill it And that's what flytraps do 'Cause if you just allow it to settle on your hand and fly where it wants Like a bird or a butterfly It could come back and settle and then swing to fly
So the hand needs to be an open hand Gentle, open hand It's about being free, but it's not about not being loving Actually, but you kill the love if you, if you crush it You can't do that to people That's not love That's possession